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Location: Rochester, Minnesota, United States

Saturday, October 29, 2005

Thanks For the Memories

I used to have a really good memory. Not like Irish's or anything (regular poster to this blog; long-time friend, one of the most irritatingly phenomenal memories ever...how this bucket o' brains remembers my birthday after 20 some odd years when I can't even remember what season his is - much to my extreme chagrin - is beyond me. Irish can remember anything - and I wish he'd stop it!) It was not uncommon for me to memorize up to 40 or 50 pages of script at a time. When I played in the piano bar, I had to memorize anywhere from 300 to 500 songs at a time (the secret is in the fact that most songs have the same chord pattern and most singers only sing in a few favorite keys and I've always been pretty good with jingles and lyrics). How is it that I can't remember whether the baby or the dog is named "Gimli" and what year my dad died? I honestly have to count back from when I bought my car because that's the last "date" I can remember. I can remember the time I got spanked when I didn't deserve it and yet I couldn't tell you what I made for dinner last night.

I used to be glued to Jeopardy. I even once had an appointment to be a Jeopardy auditioner. I couldn't even hold my own during the Kid's Jeopardy anymore. Not that I don't know information. Just that I don't have any recall. Other than to say, in my best old lady voice, "I can recall a time..." - but really, I can't. I just make it up so nobody knows I can't remember a damned thing.

Like Irish's birthday. Or my first date. Or what I originally sat down to write about.

*sigh*

Friday, October 28, 2005

And The Thunder Rolls

While it's been admitted that fog makes me a little misty and homesick, and rain makes me silly, a really good thunderstorm makes me...oh my. I don't know if every woman catches the energy from a good storm the same way. Maybe you had to read one too many Harlequin romances as a girl, as I did, to have an obessive desire to be kissed in the rain. Of course, in the real world I'd complain about how "you're getting my hair wet and my mascara will run."

There's something incredibly wild and primal about a storm. Thunder, lightening, downpour for hours. If you turn all the lights out, light the candles, put on Barry White or Chaka Kahn...that, my friends, is a recipe for the perfect night. And if a bottle of wine and a sweet soul shows up, too...well, then that becomes a Phil Vasser song about french kissing on a bear-skinned rug.

Oh, geez, did I just write all that? Um...where am I? Who are all these people? How 'bout them White Sox?

Come On 'a My House...


Love is kinda crazy with a spooky little girl...

I love Halloween. Love it almost as much as Christmas. Yeah, I know. Some of those fundamentalist Christians believe that the celebration of Samhain (that's the right one, I think) is "evil" and "encouraging Satanism". And although they have many a dentist on their side, I'm a little unmoved.

Why is it that scraping out the insides of a jack o' lantern, carving it into patterns and illuminating it on the sidewalk or front window is wrong, yet we can pluck a turkey, scoop out it's innerds, shove bread and celery up its a**, serve it on a candlelit table and then light the luminarias heralding the Christmas season and it's a wholesome family tradition? Why is it okay to dress up like the wisemen for boring Christmas pageants where you don't even get anything for your efforts except a lecture, and it's not okay to recycle the Huggies box as a robot and reap lots of Butterfingers as your reward?

Oh, right. Pleasing children, having fun, indulging in dress up and make believe = fun. So kids pull pranks. The ones doing the malicious stuff aren't just doin' it on Halloween night, folks. So dinner for one night is hot dogs and Three Musketeers, big deal. So my daughter wants to trick or treat as a dead version of herself (hey, on BI it's supposed to be a right of passage as a young teenaged girl to go trick or treating as a...lady of the evening. That's wrong!!!!). Better than her dressing up as a goth every day.

I, myself, will either be a dragon lady, a space alien, or an over-harried mommy. The baby will be a spider so who's going to look at me anyway?

Anything that involves food, chocolate and costumes must be heaven sent.

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Strange Magic

No, I do not know why my format suddenly has a ton of space at the top and no, I do not know how to fix it.

Any puter geeks wanna give me hint?

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

This Golden Ring Doesn't Shine For Me Anymore

So...here's the kind of state I moved to.

For lack of any better reading material like emails or snail mails from friends, family or even bill collectors, I was perusing The Smoking Gun's website. (Hey, it beats soap operas!) The following is highly paraphrased and Reader's Digested so as to save on my fingers.

It seems that in a New Hampshire Rest Stop, somewhere around Conway, a woman reported to the ranger there that when she went to the bathroom, a man was staring at her from the "vault". Now, if you're a nice little mid-western kid like me, you may not know what a "vault" is. It seems that these toilets are more like the ones my Gramma in Northern Missouri had in her outhouse. They are plastic, removeable and have a large base and hole that leads directly into a "vault" where the sewage is kept. The ranger came to investigate and saw "a wake" in the fluid of the vault, but no person. He called the police. The policeman interviewed the woman, and then had the rangers give him access to the vault from a manhole cover. When shining his flashlight into the vault, he discovered a man pressed up against the farthest corner, trying to be as invisible as Bert on the old sitcom "Soap". The policeman asked the man to come to the opening twice and arrested him only after he had been "decontaminated". Dude, I so do not blame you. Anyway, when questioned, the suspect - a 45 year old Maine man named Gerald Moody - told police that he had been changing clothes in the women's restroom when he dropped his wedding ring down the toilet. It was a very expensive ring, he explained, and he would be in serious trouble if he went home without it (but I'm sure she'd be understanding of this, right?). So he crawled through the toilet into the vault to retrieve it. The police asked why he hadn't used the men's room and he told them it was busy at the time (I have never figured out how come men have only half the amount of stalls we do - don't they have bashful bladders, too? Who wants to pee in front of others? Then again, they write their name in snow, so...). Later, when EMT's were looking over Mr. Moody (they waited until his decontamination, too), they pointed out that he had a cut on his foot. He waved them away saying "It's all right, I was wearing waders." At this point, Mr. Observant Policeman pointed out to ol' Gerry there that he wasn't wearing waders when he came out of the vault. Gerry said he left them in there. But where did the waders come from, Mr. Observant-why-me-Lord?-Policeman asked. Well, apparently after he dropped his ring, he went to his truck and got out his waders, water shoes and an extra shirt. Why didn't he use that opportunity to report the lost ring to the ranger on duty, Mr. Observant-the-guys-aren't-gonna-believe-this-one Policeman asked? Ol' Murky Moody had no answer.

The vault was pumped a day or two later so that the Policeman who should get hazard pay could collect evidence. Waders, water shoes, an extra shirt and some socks were found. No wedding ring was ever recovered.

So I wanna know...at any point during his arrest, interview and subsequent booking, did this guy ever, just once to the great glee and amusement of the entire force of State Troopers, mutter "Oh, shit."?

And if you're gonna go to the trouble of having waders, water shoes and a really disgusting "special area of interest", couldn't you at least have brought a better story along, too?

I used to live in a cosmopolitan city where I would sit in Polish coffee shops where the bathroom walls had grafiti by Columbia students hypothesizing Sartre-esque theories and notating geometric equations which I still don't know what they were supposed to be. Now, I live in a state where men carry waders and hang out in Rest Stop Vaults.

Rain, rain, go away
Come again after a really long delay (shall we say...March?)
I swear that I
will poke my eye (with a pointy stick)
if I have to stay locked up in this house with a toddler and Elmo one moe single day!


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